People come to fix their relationships. It is of the most rewarding sessions that I do. People, their hearts reignited, fall back in love or open to receive safely the love they always deserved.

Hypnotherapy for Relationships sort this way:

1. Building trust and removing hurt after infidelity,
2. Recovering after a break up or broken heart,
3. Spicing things up mid-relationship,
4. Attracting a high-value lover in the first place

Infidelity
The most common relationship client are those looking to rebuild trust in their relationship. Even if the incident(s) happened years ago, they claim their relationship could never be the same. They think a dark cloud of distrust would always loom and cast shadows upon their heart, even after the initial pain is gone.

My approach dispels the darkness and can illuminate both hearts so they shine pure and true. Getting over the pain, removing the ruminating thoughts that leave a stink in the air, these things are easily dealt with. We tend to see great movement towards peace within a single session. What a great relief and increased quality of life that is!

But peace isn’t enough to fix a wounded relationship. It is wise to be wary if one has had a wandering lover. Hypnotherapy has a wonderful solution: a true evolution of self, both for you and the lover. What would it look like if you could look at them and know with absolute confidence they live within their highest values? How about if you could look at them, see the person hypnotherapy matured them into, and be certain you are safe with them? And the both of you can grow above what inter-personal dynamic that may have created the issue in the first place.

Break Ups & Broken Hearts
Ouch! An injured heart is of the saddest of all wounds. We are left alone, bereft, empty. We might be shattered and doubt we’ll ever pick up the pieces of our broken heart.

But we can be put back together. And we can learn to make our own magic again.

When it first happens, the body can be so distressed that it overwhelms even sadness, eclipsing it. We walk around in a distressed state close to shock. Depending on the hurt, this pain of loss can last for awhile. Soon, sadness and a heavy burden of flatness begin to mix in. In the natural course of things, this is the bottom of the crash. We begin the slow and painful journey up and out again, fearful and hindered at every step.

But even “out,” we are stuck in a riptide dragging us away from where and how we want to be with new lovers. The issue, not truly solved, keeps a turbid undertow which has been the demise of many next relationships, sometimes for life. Usually, this shows up as the fearful lover no longer letting the new lover into their depths, not their true depths at least – it’s much too potent there. So they keep the other in ways with lines that cannot be crossed, enforced emotionally/behaviorally, sometimes self-sabotaging the relationship, and sometimes enforced geographically (long-distance relationships). That old hurt is far too active in them still.

Hypnotherapy can fully recover our heart so the pain is just gone and the issue is fully processed. Not a shred of it remains in the body or the unconscious or our life, present or future.

Amazingly, hurt that was there 20 minutes before can vanish. There’s not even a subtle flicker on the face (and I’m trained to detect those). I have them really search themselves trying to bring back some pain or fear, and they just sit there slightly confused because the issue is no longer in them. It is truly a beautiful thing.

And now being clean and clear, truly free of the ghosts of the past, we can build whatever positive thing in their life they want.

Reignited Passion
As the years tick by in a relationship, passion can dwindle. We tend to get overladen with responsibilities or stress which compress us and then suck the air right out of our lives.

Hypnotherapy provides a way to freshen your fire with new air. How wonderful to be “hungry” for your partner again (and for them to be hungry for you)! Fire wants, and it makes no apologies for that. It is the essence of the flame. And I have seen many couples get swept up in the romance of a 2nd honeymoon. The intensity and specialness of their first kiss and intimacies return. New moments to cherish forever.

I can understand how one gets dwindled in the first place. Often, it starts from a stressful job, or taking care of the family/kids, an unfortunate trauma or accident, etc. And there’s just not room for the other stuff – and when there is we are just far too fatigued to get into that other mode. Our relationships become routine and flatter than we’d like. Among the first things to dwindle are a joyful spirit (daily emotions become more terse), quality of sleep (do you wake up feeling truly rested?), and romantic feelings.

Once we start together, it often takes just minutes to reconnect with special feelings one hasn’t visited in years, sometimes decades. And then we bring in the power of trance states. Trance allows us to rewrite neurology and physiology as easily as an author writes on a page. We can build some very powerful states, custom-designed by you for your unique situation. Some clients report a “divine” experience. Some say the experience of being with their loved one is now so powerful that they see colors floating in the room during intimacy.

Let’s book a session so we can increase the love felt and intimacy experienced in your life.

Finding the Right Partner
The dating world can be rough. It seems full of incompatible people. There’s plenty who might work except that one fatal flaw. So how do we attract the right one?

Some of this has to do with unconscious signaling. And some of this is because one needs to first fix the relationship with your own unconscious before another relationship will work.

One’s unconscious is always signaling. And another’s unconscious can pick it up without them even being aware. It’s like a secret communication between the two. If you’ve just met someone and got a “vibe” off them that you can’t really explain, that is an unconscious signal received and decoded for you.

And there are many signals you can make that increase your attractiveness. People won’t know why but they will simply feel attracted and intrigued by you. Now, we also want to make sure the attracted person is also compatible, and the unconscious helps here too. It can select signal who to attract and who send on their way. Suitors fated to a doomed relationship won’t find an opening, and the unconscious can just turn you off to them too. Those pesky flies can’t even land and then buzz off to who cares where.

And one of the best ways to create compatibility for the kind of long-term, head-over-heels in love, mature partnership that many seek is to get the relationship right within yourself first, between you and the unconscious. Because when you are divided from your unconscious, a part of you may want that person while the other person is strongly against.

How do some get divided? Many people treat their unconscious like, well, it isn’t even considered. And they might shove unpleasant thoughts and stresses into it so they can get on with their day without having to feel it. And they may act such that internal mental pressure just keeps building. And they might use their will power excessively in ways that disbalance their system till they teeter on the edge of pathology or sickness.

Once one is in tune and in balance with the unconscious, your full self can arrive at a relationship. It is only at this time that you can give your true heart to someone. Receiving someone’s full heart is radically transformative. And you also won’t settle for someone who gives you less than full themselves, both conscious and unconscious. This precludes those with the issues that had ruined relationships in the past.